My friend Nina got married a few weeks ago now and confidently rocked an amazing dress!  She looked whimsical and girly! She also used the same photographer I am using. I’ve always felt that people shouldn’t get engaged, then try to lose 50 pounds before the wedding. It doesn’t seem natural to me. If you crash diet, you are very likely to gain the weight back, so the pictures of your “Extreme Weight Loss Wedding” would almost look like strangers- not only to others, but to yourselves. But you know what? It’s your decision! My decision was to remain “plus size,” or you know– FAT, for my wedding. Of course, if I…